Archive for the 'Motivation and Inspiration' Category

Daily Motivation = Brush Your Teeth, Shower

I am asked so many times about how to keep motivation high.  The pool of inner motivation needs nurturing and replenishing every day.  Just as we brush our teeth and take a shower daily, we need to provide ourselves with a shot of motivation every day too.  Motivation isn’t a bottomless source. 

We nurture the children in our lives, relationships with family and friends, even our gardens by watering.  Include nurturing your internal motivation daily too.  Whether it is reading my website daily (highly recommended - LOL), being involved on an online support group, take a walk in nature, read a motivational book, motivating quotes or listen to CDs, etc., whatever recharges and nurtures your motivation, do it daily.  You deserve nothing less!

What is your daily motivation?

Believe In Yourself,
Cathy, Certified Life Coach
Weight Loss Surgery Coach

This is MY Time

Remember when you were in school all of the excuses about forgetting or not completing homework?  What are your excuses to put off losing weight and reaching your weight loss goals?

Choose once and for all to get past all of the former excuses that stopped you from achieving your goal or dream and step into your power by saying: “This is my time, my life, my promise to myself. I will not stop until I achieve my goal!” 

Realizing that being unstoppable is simply a decision that you make every day, every hour, or sometimes every minute gives you the awareness that it is a choice.

And every time you choose to honor your commitment and take a single step, you are honoring yourself and exercising your self-discipline muscle. With each step you take, that muscle will grow stronger and stronger, making it easier to bring about change in your life.

Your time is now. Make a promise to yourself that you are fully committed to reaching your weight loss goal.

Believe In Yourself,
Cathy, Certified Life Coach, Weight Loss Surgery Coach

Food as Fun?

Do you associate food with having fun?  For many of us, we do.  If you want to have fun with a friend or your family, what do you do?  You eat!  Many times, we make the connection that in order to have fun - we need food!!  Food is fun, it fills our time from being bored, the fix all. 

Mix it up!  Break that connection and associate people with fun.  Food isn’t fun.  Happy people have fun.  Whether it is playing in the park with our kids, watching a movie or flying a kite, we don’t laugh and play as much as we could.  We take our fun way too seriously.  Many times, we define “fun” as flying off somewhere or putting together a formal party.  Why not do something simple?  Pillow fights are fun.  Watching a sunset or taking a walk and enjoying nature is fun. 

For today, enjoy the simple pleasure and have some fun!!

Believe In Yourself,
Cathy, Certified Life Coach
Weight Loss Surgery Coach

The Investment of Exercise, The Payoff Of Your Life

I must admit, if I didn’t have to exercise to maintain my weight, keep healthy, and continue the habits of my lifestyle, I would not exercise.  Nope, I don’t particularly love it.  I didn’t carry around 147 pounds of excess weight for the majority of my life by enjoying exercise.  However, what I do love is my life that I have due to exercise being an important component of my life I enjoy today.  If it requires an investment of 30-45 minutes per day a few days a week to keep all the benefits of weight loss and health, it’s worth it.  Actually, it is a minimal investment for a huge payoff.  When I don’t want to exercise (and believe me, there are many times that kicks in!), I remember that it’s a minimal investment for a giant payoff.  For me, that’s my motivation.  Through coaching, we can find what motivation kicks in healthy habits for you.

There are many types of exercise.  It doesn’t have to be something you hate or find boring.  Try any activity at least once.  I’ve heard a lot about Zumba recently so I’m going to check that out.  Maybe I’ll like it and maybe I won’t.  At least I tried and I’ll know.  Hey, maybe I’ll LOVE it and it’ll be fun rather than exercise only.  My next thing I’m going to try is kickboxing…..Expand your exercise horizon.

Combine your exercise with something you love.  Do you like watching dvd’s, listening to audio books, your favorites on your iPod?  Include these into your exercise routine.  Reframe your exercise time rather than “ugh” to “Me Time” and savor the time just for yourself.

After you’ve exercised and you feel great, write it down.  Write down your feelings both physically and mentally about yourself.  When you’re at that “do I want to exercise or not,” you can pull out your journal and remind yourself of the exhilaration you obtain after exercising.  The feeling of personal empowerment, strength, your body moving, clearer thinking, and the amazing and satisfying sense of achievement from merely moving your body.

I wish I could say that I that I love to exercise.  I can’t.  However, I can say that I LOVE the investment benefits of only 30-45 minutes per day to be in love with my life.  Who knows, after I’ve done Zumba or kickboxing or ???, I may be in love with exercising! 

Believe In Yourself,
Cathy, Certified Life Coach, Weight Loss Surgery Coach

Decide to Make a Decision

It is hard to make a decision.  I’m fearful of making the wrong decision.  Do I have all the information I need?  The fears go on and on.  Do you have struggles with making decisions?  If so, I’ll share something that has helped me. 

The first thing I do is to make a pros and cons list.  I take a piece of paper and draw a line down the middle.  I list one column “Pros” and the other column “Cons.”  Then I write down everything that comes to my mind about the situation either as a pro or con.  This gives me clarity and takes it out of swimming around in my head to something more visual and concrete written on paper.

I also answer the following questions based on the information that I have at the time and my feelings after the pros and cons list.

1.  What is my real objective?  What is my desired outcome?

2.  When do I have to decide?  What is my deadline?

3.  Fast forward a year from now - what does my life look like based on my decision?  Can you see happiness or regret?

4.  Is this decision final?  Can it be changed later?

5.  What are the risks?  Are they worth it to me?

Deciding to make a decision is often the hardest part.  These questions along with the pros and cons list will help clarify your thoughts and actions to allow you to make the decision and take full advantage of the opportunities that come your way.

Believe In Yourself,
Cathy

Courage - Ingredient for Honesty

“Whether you are a man or woman you will never do anything in this world without courage.  It is the greatest quality of the mind next to honor.”  ~James Lane Allen

With courage, be honest with yourself.  What are you willing to do to have what you say you want to have.  What is REALLY important to you?  We say that we want to lose weight, get back on track, or another goal.  Yet, talk is just that - talk.  We need to be honest with ourselves.  What is stopping you?  It is you!  What are you willing to do to obtain your weight loss?  Don’t be afraid if you’re honesty reveals you are unmotivated and uncommitted.

Motivation comes from “doing” it.  Take the first step and just do it.  Fake it until you make it a habit.  Once it is a habit, you are “doing” it and thus, motivated!!  Many times if you wait until the motivation strikes, you’ll continue to gain weight and dig yourself into a deeper rut of not being on track.

Have courage to be honest about where you’re at.  Start from where you are today, and then, it is just one step in front of the other to reach the destination of your weight loss by being back on track.   Coaching can help you with this process.  Contact me so we can walk on your track back together.

Believe In Yourself,
Cathy, Certified Life Coach
Weight Loss Surgery Life Coach

No More A Victim….Victory!

“Take the word victim off of your person - out of your vocabulary.  It reeks with the old energy and does not suit your magnificence.”  -Kyron

When we take charge of our lives and our habits of turning to food, we become victims to food, emotional eating, emotions, and external circumstances.  You have all the power inside of you to go from a victim of whatever comes our way, turning to food to living out personal strength and control to a life of victories.   Enjoy your daily victories!

Believe In Yourself,
Cathy

Storms and Sunshine, Thorns and Roses

We have a bad storm with lightning, thunder and lots of rain. Soon, it will be over and the bright sunshine will come through. The bright sunshine with the beautiful blooming flowers, fresh air, and budding trees were all made possible and more brilliant because of the rain.

Roses are a beautiful flower. As beautiful as they are, there are thorns. Thorns are a part of rose bushes.

Challenges and obstacles are a part of life. I believe they are part of our personal growth to make us stronger and to appreciate the lessons contained in them. Life has its own rain and thorns; from that part of life, it also has beautiful sunshine and roses. Enjoy both!

Believe In Yourself,
Cathy

Get Back Up Again

When a person falls off a bike, what do they do?  They get up and get back on moving forward.  As the person gets better in riding a bike, the falls are less frequent. 

The same is true with dieting.  We’re going to fall off from time to time.  In mastering a bike or a healthy diet program, you get back up and move forward.  The best thing to do is begin moving forward right away.  Don’t get stuck in the muck of the fall.  Get up, learn from it, and pick up where you left off.  Rather than focus on your fall, focus on all of the things you’ve done right on your diet plan.  Focus on all the meals and snacks that were healthy choices, the times you wanted to overeat and didn’t, the times you exercised and how great you felt. 

The fall is nothing; getting up again is everything.

Believe In Yourself,
Cathy

Challenges as Opportunities

All of us have troubles, problems, and challenges.  When we use those adversities as lessons, we develop the art of truly living fully. 

Choose today to use your difficulties for your learning and personal growth.  As you think of the things in your life that are challenging for you right now, ask yourself “What can I learn from this experience about myself?” and “How can I use this to strengthen myself?”

Even my struggles with weight all my life have provided insight for me.  Believe me, if I had a choice as to whether to have an issue with compulsive eating and an addictive relationship with food, I would have I would have not selected it.  However, as I think back, it has given me opportunities to live a more successful and full life.  Huh?  Yes, it is true.  Had I not had a challenge as big as food and weight in my life, I wouldn’t have been forced to develop into the person that I am today.  I have overcome, as all of us have in various ways, difficult times.  I am stronger today because of those difficulties and overcoming adversity.  I have confidence that I am not a victim of life or circumstances.  I can overcome what is thrown in my way.

As I reflect back on situations in my life that have been painful and difficult, I can see that I learned something valuable about myself, I’m a stronger person for it, and I am who I am today because of overcoming the situation.  View challenges in your life as opportunities to learn and grow, and live more fully for the wonderful person that you are.

Believe In Yourself,
Cathy